WHAT YOU DIDN’T KNOW ABOUT CHEATING (1)

Cheating has been in existence from time immemorial and it has been passed down through generations. Cheating is common among friends, partners, siblings and even in religious places, its everywhere. I am going to talk about the cheating that exists between partners in a relationship.

Men naturally like to make women feel secured and women enjoy making the men feel they are in charge. Its possible to feel romantic love for someone and be sexually attracted to another, romantic love usually makes us direct all our attention to one person. Hence attachment follows suit and then commitment because we feel a level of security with that person which often leads to a long term relationship. Just because someone cheats on their long term partners doesn’t mean they don’t still love them…

Another fact we don’t know is that cheaters ain’t necessarily unhappy in their relationships. Study shows that once a relationship starts to settle in and gets exciting, people will always want to try out something new and exciting. Don’t get me wrong, they might be perfectly happy with their current match but once an opportunity to stray comes up, they take it with both hands.

Research has shown that people are more likely to cheat with people they know. An average of 85%-90% cheat with their co-workers without their partners having to suspect them. The opportunity to get to know someone in an innocent way is there and the sexual tension can sometimes grow till it becomes unbearable.

TO BE CONTINUED….